FROM PTSD TO PTS-FREE

Providing Support for Survivors of Domestic Violence and/or Sexual Assault by Giving Them a Voice.

Why Is She Laughing is a work in progress. We believe that the only way to reduce the stigma attached to being a ‘victim’ of domestic violence or sexual assault is to enable the conversation. Our dream is to build a compilation of inspiration from victim-survivors, short stories, articles, poetry, microblogs – and more.

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percent of women are victims of severe violence by an intimate partner in their lifetimes.

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percent of homeless families identified domestic violence as a primary cause of homelessness.

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percent of gay or bisexual men who will experience intimate partner violence in their lifetimes.

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The percentage of financial abuse that occurs in all domestic violence cases

Survivor Stories

“If He was that bad? Then why did you put up with it?

He starts as the perfect gentleman/dream guy. He will have all his peacock feathers on full display. Her family will encourage her, “wow. You finally met prince charming” . However then starts the name calling and belittling, he reinforces  her insecurities and exploits them.  If she thinks she is fat – he will remind her […]

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Please Stop Using Women’s Safety as an Excuse for Bigotry

“OMG – We can’t let in a refugee because they might be a Muslim rapist and we need to protect our women and children.” “OMG – We can’t let transgender women use the women’s bathroom because they might be a sexual predator and we need to protect our women and children.” “OMG – we need […]

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Dear Person Who Wrote The Open Letter to Target:

Dear Person Who Wrote The Open Letter to Target: Feel free to agree or disagree with the politics and policies regarding public restrooms. That is your perogative. However, it is incredibly cruel and ignorant to assume that transgender people have any need when going into a restroom other than clearing their bladders, checking their Facebook […]

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Stop saying, I’m #$*&$ Sensitive

Recently, On more than one occasion I have been accused of being “too sensitive”.  I always get surprised when someone says that I am sensitive, I had never thought of myself that way… and now PTSD has turned me into an over sensitive cry baby. I had to learn to let things roll off my […]

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Speak The Truth Even If Your Voice Shakes

Listen. Look. Don’t speak. Be quiet. Can you hear in his footsteps he is angry? What did you do? Where has the light gone from his eyes? The tension in his body. Can you feel it, even when he is not hitting you? The pain. The words.  You can’t run, you can’t fight. Don’t try, […]

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